Treatment of mental illness.

Have you ever heard the horror stories in a mental hospital ? Well, look at from all sides , the actual stories about haunted asylums is quite reasonable ! Why. For many people , mental illness is considered shameful , but also terrible . Quite often people think of it as a disease or a curse karma .
But regardless of the opinion of those , psychiatry ( which handles psychiatric medicine ) does have the worst reputation among other branches . Because , a lot of medical treatment and medicines are frequently horrible given to patients .
The removal of organs , surgery and injections that sounded inhuman often done by medical personnel this field . And not infrequently their medical practice that ended in death . Some treatments Mental Hospital The Most Terrible it is ;

Trepanation ( perforate Head ) .

Trepanation is the oldest method of treatment of mental illness , which is even used by people who lived in ancient times . This treatment is called horrible because of the patient's head is cut and hollowed skull .
The purpose of trepanation is to figure out what is wrong with the patient's head who experience mental illness or problems in the head . But predictably , many surgeries that eventually must end with death . This method is also popular in Europe in the 17th century

Eliminate Body Organs .

For Dr . Henry Cotton , a mental disorder caused by infection . As a result , the only treatment is to eliminate the organs infected .
Practice began in the early 20th century . Initially , he took the patient's teeth one by one , and if the disease is not cured also he would take other organs .
Throughout his career , there is only 50 % who survive with this method . In fact , it's not necessarily the patient also recovered mentally . This horror until immortalized in a book called Madhouse , written Andrew Scull .

Lobotomy .

Lobotomy is the originator of Edgar Monis who had concluded that psychiatric problems originating from the frontal lobe ( one part of the brain ) . And the only way to eliminate it is to destroy the part. The doctor inserts a medical instrument , into the eye socket to cut the front part of the brain nerves . Icebreaker is the tool most often used for this method .
Originally lobotomy successfully provide relief to the patient . However, after a successful and run a lot of people , was revealed that in the long term , patients will experience permanent paralysis .

Electroshock .

Seeing his name , maybe you can already imagine the electric high pressure flows into the patient . Electroshock was first used by the Italian doctor a year before the first world war . 400 volt electricity is passed through the brain , and potentially cause amnesia and brain damage . Although highly controversial and dangerous , but there are still many psychiatrists who use this method .

Created coma .

Coma is a condition that is quite scary in the medical world . But Manfred Sekel actually use commas method to cure the patient . How can it be ?
He first used this method in drug addicts , by injecting large amounts of insulin . After waking from a long sleep , the patient admitted to heal . The same method was also able to cure mental patients .
But in the end , this method was discontinued because of terrible side effects begin to appear . Patients started to die due to an overdose of insulin .

Metrazol treatment .

Psychiatrist Ladislas von Meduna Hungarian origin had gained popularity because of this discovery . He used a number of drugs to calm schizophrenia . effect of these drugs is to make the patient seizure , but in the end be more calm . But after some time it is used , the patient appeared peculiarities of behavior , so that the use of these drugs eventually stopped .

Hydrotherapy .

If you hear the word hydrotherapy , maybe you will think about the tub filled with warm water and comfortable . But make no mistake , the therapy is meant here was very painful ! Patients were sprayed with high pressure water to reduce his aggressive attitude . They could have sprayed while standing , or tied in a bathtub with high pressure

Rotation Therapy .

This therapy is arguably strange . How not , the patient twisted around , either manually or with tools . It must be admitted that the therapy developed Charles Darwin 's grandfather was harmless and leaves no trauma . But certainly , the patient will experience severe dizziness after living it .

Eliminating the uterus .

The hypocrite believed that hysteria , is a mental disorder that is associated with a woman's uterus is shifted . The only way to eliminate this is to fix the position of the uterus .
But in the 20th century , how crazy started. Instead of fixing the position , oophorectomy direct method removes the ovaries of women who are suffering from hysteria . In fact , this method is tantamount to castration method , which makes possible the woman was pregnant and gave birth .

Mesmer method .

The hypocrite believed that hysteria , is a mental disorder that is associated with a woman's uterus is shifted .
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The most obese people.

The most obese people.

For those who like to eat careful in choosing foods , choose healthy foods in order intake of excess nutrients are met or not . If not careful can lead to obesity or overweight body is very harmful to the body .
It is the JV which has a very high body weight as a result of their diet . For them , the problem is no longer removes fat deposits , but the battle between life and death .

Paul Mason ( 444.5 kg ) .

Paul Mason ( 52 years old ) was once considered the most obese people in the world, with a body weight that reached 444.5 kg. The man from Ipswich, Suffolk, England , was asked to undergo a gastric bypass or risk of death after him . After surgery , his weight dropped to 181 pounds . But he did not get charged for operating on his skin now looks sagged .

Donna Simpson ( 450 kg ) .

Donna Simpson is an American woman who in 2008 published a that he wants to be one of the fattest woman in the world . The target weight is 450 pounds and he paid Rp 769 million / year to eat . In 2008 weighed weighed 290 pounds, but fell to 273 kg in 2010 . But in 2010 , he won the honor of the holder of the Guinness World Record as the heaviest woman to give birth .

Manuel Uribe ( 597 kg ) .

Born in 1965 in Monterrey , Mexico , Manuel Uribe is known for having equal weight ballooned to six people . Hobbies eat tacos and pizza , he reached the top weighs about 597 pounds and bound in the bed since 2001 .

Ricky Naputi ( 408 kg ) .

Having the title as the world's fattest man is not a blessing , contrary to Ricky Naputi . With a weight reached 408 kg , he can not go anywhere other than at home alone . And the last greatest hope is undergoing weight loss surgery . Unfortunately, Ricky wishes will never come true . In November 2012, he was found dead in his home because of severe obesity .

Robert Earl Hughes ( 171 kg ) .

During his lifetime , Robert Earl Hughes listed as the heaviest man in history . Born in 1958 , her weight is excessive because it is caused by a damaged pituitary gland . At the age of 6 years has been 92 kg body weight and at 10 years old , he weighed 171 pounds . When he died at age 32 in 1926 , weighed over half a ton . He contracted measles , which soon developed into uremia .

Mayra Rosales ( 495 kg ) .

Mayra Rosales became headline news when he was accused of murdering the son of his sister, but acquitted when the court decided that he was just too big to kill. Woman from Texas is saying that he could not even lift her arms to attack her nephew , because at that time his weight reached 495 kg .

Terri Smith ( 317 kg ) .

' Diet or die ' . This is the doctor's choice offered to Terri Smith , who used to be the fattest woman in the world , due to its weight had reached 317 pounds . He suffered from intense headaches and needs a brain scan , but his body was too large to fit into the MRI machine .

8.Kenneth Brumley ( 468 kg ) .

Kenneth Brumley gained worldwide attention when he appeared in a Channel 4 documentary Bodyshock ' Half Ton Dad ' . Father of 4 children, was weighed nearly 468 pounds and has been tied to the bed for four years . He was then accepted as a gastric bypass patient at the Renaissance Hospital in Houston , Texas . However , to take him out of the house to the hospital , the fire department had to destroy the wall to pull it off .

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The most famous ritual place.

Asia is famous for its historic buildings that have been built since hundreds of years ago . The historic buildings such as temples of worship that has existed since centuries ago. In addition , the shrine became the most popular place in the world .
Well , here are some of the places of worship became the most popular place in the world . This is now the fifth place ,

Wat Phra Kaew, Bangkok, Thailand.

Wat Phra Kaew is the temple that became the most famous tourist attractions in Bangkok . This temple was built with golden color that makes this temple is very interesting . In the temple there is a giant Buddha statue made ​​of jade . And the statue that is the main attraction of this temple .

Tian Tang , Beijing , China .

Tian tang is a temple into a place of worship of Taoists . This temple has been built since 1406 until 1420 .
The architecture of this temple was built with the theme of earth and sky , so this temple symbolizes the relationship between man and the gods .

Lotus Temple, New Delhi, India.

The Lotus Temple is the most famous building in India , because the building is shaped like a giant lotus relationship . Buildings built in 1986 is located in the village of Bahapur , New Delhi , India . The Lotus Temple is a place of worship of the followers of Bah confidence .

Paro Taktsang , Bhutan .

Paro Taktsang is a building that was built in honor of Guru Padmasambhava who have spread Buddhism in Bhutan . The building is located in a valley fold , exactly at the tip of the edge of the cliff whose height reaches 900 meters . The building is a tourist spot which is sought after by tourists .

Borobudur Temple, Magelang, Indonesia.

Borobudur temple is ever entered into the seven wonders of the world that is built on top of a hill . This temple is a relic of the Sailendra Dynasty , which was in Magelang . This temple is a building that is shaped like a pyramid and a staircase made ​​of iron andesite two hundred million . The temple is a place of worship for Buddhists throughout the world .
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Great Mosque of Demak.

Demak Great Mosque is one of the oldest mosques in Indonesia. The mosque is located in the village of Kauman, Demak, Central Java.

History. 

The mosque is believed to have ever become a gathering place for scholars (guardian) who spread Islam in Java called Walisongo. The founder of this mosque is estimated Raden Patah, the first king of the Sultanate of Demak around the 15th century AD.
Raden Patah with Wali Songo establish the mosque's charismatic fleeced by giving a similar picture. This is sengkala memet moon, with the meaning Sarira Silent Kiblating meaningful Gusti in 1401 Saka. Figure machinations comprising heads of the number represented by 1 (one), 4 feet means the number 4 (four), the machinations means the number 0 (zero), means the tail struck the number 1 (one). The symbol of the Great Mosque of Demak stood predicted in 1401 Saka.

Architecture. 

This mosque has a parent buildings and porches. The main building has four main pillars called pillars. One of the main mast is said to come from pieces of wood, so named saka shavings. Building foyer is an open building. Pyramid-shaped roof supported eight columns called Saka Majapahit. Mosque pyramid roof consists of three sections that describe: (1) Faith, (2) Islam, and (3) Ihsan. In this mosque there is also a "Door Bledeg", containing sengkala moon, which can be read Dragon Mulat salira Wani, the meaning in 1388 Saka or 1466 AD, or 887 H.

At the location of the Great Mosque of Demak complex, there are several tombs of the kings of the Sultanate of Demak and his servants. In this complex there is also a Museum of the Great Mosque of Demak, which contains various things about the history of the Great Mosque of Demak.
Great Mosque of Demak nominated to be a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1995.
Mosque founded by Wali Songo together within 1 (one) night, the mosque was founded in 1399 Saka (1447 AD) which is characterized by candrasangkala (Lawang Then Gunaningjami) was struck on the picture that was in the mosque mihrab there emblem saka 1401 that shows this mosque was established in 1479 AD the building of teak wood, measuring 31 mx 31 m premises of the porch measuring 31 mx 15 m center roof supported by four (4) pieces of a giant wooden pillars (pillars) made four guardian yamg among the nine trustees, saka southeast is made in Sunan Ampel, saka southwest Sunan Gunung artificial teak, artificial northwest Sunan Bonang and while the northeast is not made of a single piece of wood but rather composed of several pieces of beams that held together (saka chips), the contribution of the Sunan Kalidjaga. Porches with eight poles boyongan an additional building at the time of the Duke of Jonah (Pati Unus or prince Sabrang Lor), sultan of Demak 2nd (1518-1521 AD) in 1520
In the development process, Sunan Kalidjaga holds a very important role. Guardian who contributed to this fix Qiblah direction. According to history, Sunan Kalidjaga antakusuma will also gain, which is a package that supposedly contains clothing gift of the Prophet Muhammad, which falls from the sky in front of the trustees who were consulted in the mosque. By the mid-seventeenth century, when the kingdom of Mataram stand, the rebellion was also enliven history of the kings of Mataram that time.
The same history also plagued the kingdom of Demak. The new powers are derived from the introduction of Islam to Java. A son of Brawijaya Regent Moslems around the year 1500 and named Raden Patah of Demak domiciled, publicly sever ties from Majapahit who have no power anymore, and the help of other areas that have Islam (such as Gresik, Tuban and Jepara), he founded the Islamic empire centered in Demak. But the existence of the kingdom of Demak never deserted from undermining the insurgency. Trenggono the reign of the king, and even managed to conquer Singasari Mataram. But the resistance war and insurgency still occur in some areas with a strong base of Hindu beliefs. So the Pasuruan area and can survive and Blambangan Panarukan remain part of Bali which remained Hindu. In 1548 AD, the king Trenggono died due to the war with Pasuruan.
Death Trenggono cause a power struggle between his brother and his son named prince who holds Sunan Prawoto Prawoto (1549 AD). The prince's sister nicknamed Lepen Seda killed by the river and Prawoto and his family killed by the son of a prince named Seda Lepen Arya Panangsang. Demak throne controlled Arya Penangsang notorious and unpopular people, causing rebellion and the chaos that comes from-duchy duchy. Moreover, when the duke of Jepara which have a major impact killed anyway, which resulted in the brother of the Duke of Jepara nicknamed Queen Kalinyamat with other duke duke-rebellion in the form of movements against Arya Panangsang. One of the rebel duke named Hadiwijoyo Tingkir nicknamed Jake, the son of a once-in-law Kebokenongo Trenggono who still have blood relations with the king. Jake Tingkir, Boyolali Pajang ruling, the war had killed Arya Penangsang. And therefore he moved to the Palace of Demak Pajang and he became the first king in the Display. Thus, the Islamic kingdom of Demak finished history.
Demak Great Mosque is one of the oldest mosques in Indonesia. This mosque has a historical value is very important for the development of Islam in this country, precisely in the Sultanate of Demak Bintoro. Many people believe this mosque as a place of gathering of the guardians propagator of Islam, which is better known as Walisongo (Guardian Nine). The trustee is often gathered for worship, discussion about the spread of Islam, and teach Islamic sciences to the surrounding population. Therefore, this mosque can be considered as a living monument to the spread of Islam in Indonesia and the Sultanate of Demak Bintoro evidence grandeur.
Great Mosque of Demak established in three stages. The first phase of construction was in 1466 AD when it was still a building of this mosque Glagahwangi Boarding School under the tutelage of Sunan Ampel. In 1477 AD, the mosque was rebuilt as a mosque Duchy Glagahwangi Demak. In the year 1478 AD, when Raden Patah of Demak was appointed as the first Sultan, the mosque was renovated with the addition of three traps. Raden Fatah together Walisongo lead the development process of this mosque with the help of the local community. The guardian sharing their respective duties. In general, the trustees work became a cornerstone of the main pillars supporting the mosque. However, there are four guardians that specifically led the other pillar of manufacture, are: Sunan Bonang make the cornerstone of lead in the northwestern part; Sunan Kalidjaga make fundamental pillars in the northeast; Sunan Ampel make fundamental pillars in the southeast, and Sunan Gunungjati make cornerstone of the southwest.
Overall area of ​​the main building of the Great Mosque of Demak is 31 x 31 m2. In addition to the main building, there is also a mosque porch measuring 31 x 15 m long x 2.35 m circumference 35; drum with a size of 3.5 x 2.5 m, and propagation tatak with size 25 x 3 m. The porch of the mosque shaped building open. The mosque is supported by 128 pillar, the four of them is a main pillar of the buffer. Pillars of the mosque building totaling 50 pieces, porch pillars numbered 28 pieces, and the pole circumference totaling 16 pieces.
The mosque has a distinctive architectural style typical of the archipelago . The mosque is using a three- tiered pyramid roof in the form of an isosceles triangle . The pyramid roof is generally different from the roof of the mosque in the Middle East are more familiar with the shape of a dome . It turns out that the model of this three- tiered pyramid roof has meaning , namely that a believer needs to climb three important levels in the ber - religion : faith , Islam , and ihsan . In addition , this mosque has a five- door that connects one part to another part , which has the meaning of the pillars of Islam, the creed, prayer, fasting , charity, and pilgrimage . This mosque has six windows , which also has the meaning of the pillars of faith , which believes in Allah , His angels , His messengers , His books , Day of Resurrection , and His qadha - Qadr .
The shape of the building of the mosque many uses of wood materials. With these materials, the manufacture of spherical shape with a curved-arch will be easier. The interior part of the mosque also uses materials from wood with carvings are so beautiful. And there is one feature of the pole pieces are not made of a single piece of wood but rather composed of several pieces of beams tied together (saka shavings). The unique shape of the building of the mosque is apparently the result of the creativity of the community at that time.
Besides adopting many local architectural developments at the time, tropical climate conditions (of which concern the availability of wood) also affect the process of construction of the mosque. Local building architecture developed at that time, such as joglo, maximizing pyramid shape with wide variations.
Demak Great Mosque is located in the city center and overlooking the vast plaza. In general, the development of cities in Java many similarities, which is a form of the unity between the building mosques, palaces, and the square in the middle. Development of this model begins by Bintoro Demak Dynasty. It is estimated, the former Sultan of Demak is located in the south of the Great Mosque and the plaza.
Great Mosque is located in the village Demaki Kauman, Demak, Central Java. Location mosque located in the district capital, is ± 26 km from the city, ± 25 km from the Holy District, and ± 35 km from Jepara. This mosque is believed to been a gathering place for scholars (guardian) propagator of Islam, also called Walisongo, to discuss the spread of Islam in Java in particular and Indonesia in general. The founder of this mosque is estimated Raden Patah, the first king of the Sultanate of Demak. At the location of the Great Mosque of Demak complex, there are several tombs of the kings of the Sultanate of Demak and his servants. There is also a museum, which contains various things about the history of the founding of the Great Mosque of Demak.
This mosque is the forerunner to the establishment of the kingdom of Demak Glagahwangi Bintoro. The structure of the mosque building has historical value of art wake Indonesian traditional architecture. His form is majestic, graceful, beautiful, charismatic, fascinating and authoritative. Now the Great Mosque of Demak functioned as a place of worship and pilgrimage. Appearance pyramid pyramid roof of the mosque shows Aqidah Islamiyah which consists of three parts: (1) Faith, (2) Islam, and (3) Ihsan. In this mosque there is also a "Door Bledeg", read "Condro Sengkolo", which reads Nogo Mulat Saliro Wani, the meaning in 1388 Saka or 1466 AD, or 887 H.

Achievement Bulus. 

Raden Patah founded the mosque with Wali Songo timeless masterpiece that is by giving the charismatic achievement fleeced picture, this is sengkolo Condro memet, with the meaning (seriro silent kiblating kaulo gusti) means that in 1401 Saka. blouse image that consists of head which means the number 1 (one) foot four significant figures 4 (four) and the machinations of the body means the number 0 (zero) means that struck the tail number 1 (one), it can be concluded that the Demak mosque stood in 1401 Saka

Saka Majapahit .

Saka Majapahit numbering eight Mosque which is located in the foyer of archaeological objects perabu gift of Brawijaya V ( five ) raden Kertabumi raden is given to be broken when Adi Pati diocesan noto in glagah fragrance Bintoro Demak in 1475 AD

Maja solar Bitter. 

This is an ornate octagonal image
very popular during the bitter maja
interpret archaeological experts, this image as a symbol
maja maja solar empire bitter bitter reply was in the Great Mosque of Demak made in 1401 Saka or 1479 AD

Maksurah. 

An artifact building buildings carved in the past
which has a value astetika a very unique and beautiful . This artwork dominate the beauty of the room , an artifact inscribed therein maksurah Arabic - noble - that is to say it to the Oneness of Allah
Maksurah inscriptions are carved figures in the year 1287 H or 1886 AD during which the Adi Pati Demak held by KRMA (Aryo Purbaningrat ) .

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Swinger World Group.

Swinger is a group of people who commit sexual activity with a partner rotatory manner. The goal is a variation in the form of touch without having affair with someone else. Because in the world of swingers, both partners mutually agree with each other and know with whom their partners do. Sounds good too, because we will be channeled sexual fantasies.

But if the activity is harmless swing? Especially if it will not interfere with emotion and harmony of our relationship with our spouse?
It is not too easy to answer. Many things should be a material consideration before you enter the world of "wild" is. The most important thing is: you should discuss these issues openly and honestly with their partners.
From some experience to join in one of swinger clubs in the country, indeed there are some rules and requirements are quite stringent. It aims to minimize the impact of the swinger activities. Some things you must consider before entering the world of swingers is as follows:

Participants Ethics. 

All attendees will definitely want to get a beautiful swinger experience, it is expected to consider ethics as guidance for all the wishes and expectations of the participants can be achieved with the best:
--> Be Polite. World swinger overshadowed by insecurity, uncertainty, fear and challenges. There are times when you will feel jealous of other couples and tempted to chipped with them. If that happens, then keep asking them politely and do not impose your own will.
--> Be friendly. Perhaps you or your spouse will have a personal interest to the other participants, then it is highly recommended that you keep being friendly for smooth ongoing party. Because it is part of the risk swinger world.
--> Be prepared. Swinger world is a serious challenge. You have to be really ready and trust with your partner before you decide to join. The point you should be someone who is open minded, because if not, you should not join.
--> Shown net. Nothing like a club member who traipse couples party. And a as good and clean as possible, or other participants would be bothered by your presence. The hosts are very concerned if there are members who complain about the discomfort they place party.
--> Respect other people's feelings. Be aware that not everyone will feel comfortable in all situations. Make sure you pay attention to the comfort of your spouse and other swinger couples. And even then can apply it yourself. For that, still keep your attitude and your speech so as not to disturb other members feelings.
--> Do not Force. If you are interested in other couples, hook up well and still pay attention to their comfort. If you are interesting enough, they will respond well. And if otherwise, then you should not be a participant who impressed as the enforcer. Because you have to understand, a new member usually takes time to adjust.
--> Respect partner. Swinger pleasure in activities is the main goal of the members. But in order that each member should pay attention to the comfort and feelings of their partner. If your partner does not feel good and happy to be in the group, then you also should stop immediately. In this way, then you will be able to keep your harmony with your partner.
Probably not a lot of swingers clubs in Indonesia, because it is not acceptable in swinger our culture. Most swingers clubs engaged in a layer only "underground" in a limited area. You see there are some swingers group on facebook where members use frills married couple as a user ID name. But the info from some friends who joined in it said, most of the facebook-style swinger couples are people who can not be trusted. Some are just for fun people who do not really want to join, but want to make friends just for fun phone sex. Some others only single men who want to look for pocket money through aunts. Not to mention some couples swingers who was not married couples (couples) are valid.
Of the above pose a risk for some people, for example concerning the matter of "fairness" feeling for swinger couples, about health and privacy. So, I suggest, if you are really keen to try the swinger activities, should join inclusively in swingers club there. Although usually attractive swingers club membership fee, but based on experience, making us even more safe and comfortable. Because hosts did a rigorous screening before accepting applicants into their members. For example, the validity problem mate, physical and mental health, as well as all members privacy is really prioritized by them.
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The quality and quantity of sex and love.

Sex is a need, as well as love . However , what if a lot of sex and love spit it definitely needs can be met ? Is all that difficult to get into quality and quality so that the quality was ignored ? ! It's sexual needs or the needs of lust and love , money , and proving himself , anyway? !
In the era of the " free" full commercialization and industry as it is today , it seems increasingly difficult to find the specific and special , which is really good quality and able to keep themselves in order to remain qualified . Too many " ordinary " , the same , and most , so it is very boring . Want to women or men , rich and poor , young and old , have many school degree or not , have a high position or not , almost the average behavior and thinking is tantamount to matters of sex and love . Market really ! ! !
" I actually was a problem with my partner . Well there .... We survive only because of the family and the kids alone .... Blah blah blah .... "
" I love to wonder , why do they want , yes , I am the same when I was mediocre . They said me this ....... Preeettt ! ! ! "
"After he's also a lot of her boyfriend ! How many times have caught ..... Jeez ! !  "
" Why should pretentious and hypocritical ? His name is also sex , all must take . Lost are if not enjoyed ? What do you like to keep it at ? ..... Hedeh ! ! ! ! "
" Love it differently , yes ! ... Stale ! ! ! "
Coupled with the easiness in the virtual world and the real world as well as smart to speak for reasoned and seek justification . " Mode " it was predictable and in fact almost the same with each other . No need to be smart to be able to figure it out , the important thing is not " the feeling " and indeed dare to be yourself filled with a sense of respect for themselves and others . Unless it has the intent and purpose for pleasure and personal interests as well , it is that other story. The risks are well , swallow it himself .
Surprisingly , they rarely want to admit about this quantity . Most definitely feel remains concerned with the quality and maintain the quality and choosing quality. And , when it's in there here and let the " cheap " and " easy " then what's so qualified ? ! Not necessarily who claimed to have " experienced " and " great " it is true. Mostly just speaking course , as true yes . From the research, it was proven that " less , mediocre , and problematic " was the most widely - indulgence. If you are truly qualified , would not be arbitrary, dong ! Doing too humble themselves better while maintaining quality. Only quality goods certainly expensive although not necessarily expensive goods quality also. Yes, is not it?!
If you think about it , what the hell is gained from all this ? What he liked to have sex just to have sex alone . Physical needs over the sexual fulfillment of this is unavoidable , but if only for a moment and just so-so , for what ? ! How much time that can be enjoyed over such behavior , compared with the risks and consequences . Not to mention the added sorrow and loneliness and undermine increasingly becoming recognized unacknowledged , unconscious conscious .
Else if true love , of course, will be felt at the beauty and pleasure all the time . There is a " sense " in the hearts of more than just a physical affair , there is fulfilled in themselves . At the very least , there is a tremendous happy because filled with love . There's no business then feel profit or loss , because of the truly sincere heart and selfless .
The most ridiculous is when then " kicked " or "thrown " away. Not a few who feel hurt , embarrassed , and angry because they do not accept it . And then there was all the struggle that yields defensive passing attack everywhere intended for "revenge " or just let go of all the hurt and embarrassment . The virtual world also widely used without also aware that The real all it shows ignorance , his dwarf - soul , and the poor quality yourself . What do other people are stupid and do not understand all ? ! One of their own , really, want ? ! Why not dare to admit mistakes and high-minded self to accept it as a mistake that later repaired ? !
All of these problems can occur due to yourself and who choose to take this option as well is yourself . Pair does have a role , but only half of it , so that he could not fully considered responsible and blamed . So also with the culture or the environment , must be of the self that took the decision despite " disruption " and " temptation " from everywhere. If the devil was willing to blame , should be ashamed of yourself, why to be stuck in a trap . Too " ordinary " to really use excuses and justifications so . Absolutely not qualified ! ! !
Our body is really just a piece of meat that will return to dust and soil later , but there is a spirit and soul that makes us more valuable it becomes . There are also brain and liver that is a boon , which becomes useless if not used properly . If the quantity is really an option , go ahead , but do not be upset if it just gets a " value " that is so , yes ! One of their own , too! ! !
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DatePublished: March 07, 2014 at 19:47

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Controversy sex Swingers style.

Everything could be considered positive can also be considered a negative , depending on which angle we look at it . So also with the sexual behavior of these swingers . Some say that this is one way to strengthen the relationship with the partner , on the other hand is magnified says otherwise . We do not have to talk about sin , we talk from the point of view of others , yes !
Swingers is a group of several couples who exchanged sex couples in this group . They should have sex with anyone they like and wish for being in this group . Of course, to be part of the criteria they exist , there are also requirements .
The main reason often put forward by those who want to do it is to keep sexual desire in a long time become husband and wife . They have already passed the exam about love as shown to have been with for so long. They do purely for sex only, so no need to involve the emotions at all other than lust .
" Our children are teenagers and we 've been together a dozen years . We are equally convinced of the love that we have, does not need to be in doubt. We did so because of a sense of trust between each other . We know its limits . This is purely just to satisfy our sexual fantasies alone . "
Okay !
There is another couple swingers I've ever interviewed admitted that they do so because they have a passion to make again . They became more frequent sexual intercourse and much more fervent than ever .
" We used to do that very rarely . Really stale ! In the end we invited friends and both agreed to join the group . Now we become more frequent and certainly made ​​us much happier . "
Oh yes ? !
In fact there are other couples who say that it is better so that they do not necessarily have an affair without their knowledge .
" At this rate , it , I came to know with whom he had sex . No need to lie , and I also know for sure the extent to which they relate . "
" Not jealous ? "
"No , tuh ! "
That was the reason for the swingers who want to do it and until now still do it . Other Other desert locust . I had interviewed several people who had joined the swingers then regret and no longer want to do .
As one man who later divorced his wife . He regretted having agreed to call his ex-wife and best friend was .
" At first , I admit it 's been like a dream come true . My sexual fantasies over the years is to be able to do it with a lot of women and this way I can do it without feeling guilty . Until after a long time I felt disgusted himself saw how my wife have sex with other men . I was so disgusted with the women who want to do it . I stopped but my wife does not want to . Finally we decided to split up . "
Risk !
So is the expression of a woman who finally feel jealous of another woman in the group . He can not stand to see her husband having sex with her, there was always jealous of his heart .
" I feel they do not just have sex alone . They were very affectionate all. In fact, my husband is much more affectionate to him than to my own wife . I split up with him and women and even then eventually divorced her husband . True means that during this time they had been in love . "
Gosh !
There was also a man who eventually wake up from a dream . He was once delighted and even asked his wife to have sex with other men to get her excited , it then felt that she was so outrageous because quite enjoyed it .
" I'm always excited to watch my wife have sex with other men . I once asked him to want to do it for me . At first he did not want to until we finally joined a swingers group whose members actually selected . Uh , actually keeps him like a crazy person . Addicted to continue , and not just with the group . He was also determined to do it with other men . I got scared myself. "
Well , you know!
Personally , I still can not accept the reasons given by these swingers . They want to do it just for me it was a symptom that is not right . Everyone can have a fantasy and even be as wild as possible , only , when it is not able to control themselves , of course there is a problem . Even if then the reason is to solve the problem of passion , of course, all of this is too risky to be used as problem solving .
Love does not have and love the members but also should be able to make love the passion is still there without any reason whatsoever . In my opinion , the reason the love they give is simply a justification alone . Many couples who are already familiar with his partner so that no entanglement between the one and the other and becomes a necessity . Routines make us become accustomed to , and this is what often makes the two can not be separated .
On the other hand , the routine also makes both saturated and wanted to do something different . It makes sense if all it can make them closer to each other , it's just whether they were in love ? Is not there another factor that makes them " forced " should remain together , such as the values ​​and views of the outside community and to their families when separated ? ! Financial reasons are also likely , right? !
The jealousy is natural and should be controlled . I myself really do not like the taste of jealousy or envy , but there are still limits that must be observed to remember we are human . Maybe we could control it but we do not necessarily mate . Why spoil all that exists and will impose only to satisfy lust so that there was no love just disappear ? !
This does not include disease risk factors , although the swingers was selected previously . After all the names have been swapped couples especially rotating back and forth , it becomes a greater risk . Okay no snack , but the mouth can carry disease . Is it ready to face all the risks? !
Swingers it was very tight and closed once . But what is hidden can be open when it is in God desired to be opened . Now just imagine what would happen if their children know all of this ? I can not imagine the impact . Yes if the child was ready , what if not ? ! Do children have to be sacrificed for the sake of the name of lust ? !
The most I can not accept is as into modern couples are swingers and " classy " . It requires extra budget to be able to join this group . Not less costly , but the class whose name has the dignity of a high, rather than in groups. That , anyway , his name only exclusive . Exclusive does not mean classy and elite because anyone who distinguish themselves with groups and others are exclusive .
While modern , not for me at all . In fact, very primitive . Modern man is a man who has a broad view and could see far ahead . Not just for a moment or just now but all our actions and thoughts are for the future . When only a matter of trend and looks alone , what's so modern ? ! Already disorientation indeed .
When you are doing this all is the leader , leader , and role model for society , of course, very sad. How they can be a leader , considered leaders and role models when their actions reflect that how miserable they are . Where there are mentally ill people who can lead ? ! Where can people with problems can solve the problem ? !
Where there are dishonest people can bring truth and give truth itself ? ! What could possibly bring all the leads and that they can imitate to have a better life ? !
Back again all of this is an option . I do not have the right to prohibit because all have rights . I also do not have the ability to stop because every man is different . If it is true already harming or harassing the other party in the new law I could do something legally . If indeed it is the desire of yourself and not force or no force , yes , there is nothing unlawful . My obligation is to provide another point of view so that it becomes more and more choices and to not pick just one . Whatever be the choice of risk and consequences . Which is responsible for yourself as well .
I think that it needs to be addressed is the mindset and outlook as well as the definition and understanding of sex itself . The root causes of all this , where else is the same . Mindset and perspective . Everything can be seen from the top of what 's going on , but all that happens always has a common thread . What is the common thread , that's the point. From there we can start to fix it .
No need to be far away from the others and start pointing the finger or tell and ask others to do so , but the start of yourself first . If we are able to see things from all different angles , honest , and know what and who we really are , it really means for the future and a better life . Want ? !
Thank you for reading this article. Written and posted by Bambang Sunarno. sunarnobambang86@gmail.com
author:
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name: Bambang Sunarno.
http://primadonablog.blogspot.com/2014/03/controversy-sex-swingers-style.html
DatePublished: March 07, 2014 at 19:19

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