Have you ever heard the term valentine? In fact, you may never celebrate. Every February 14, almost all men, especially those in pairs, celebrating Valentine's Day or Valentines Day. Brown and shades of pink paced celebration of today become the main icon of this affection. Everyone seemed to want to devote all his love for loved ones. A lot of people who are already infected by this valentine fever. Surely we know, a lot of events to welcome this February 14th. Starting from the show on television, the latest movies both foreign and domestic country to the atmosphere around us, for example in shops or malls and also hotels or anywhere else, all willing to welcome this February 14. It is certainly very strong reception seemed occurs in young people or teenagers, as if to make this moment as spillover sense of love and affection to their loved ones, even if the day of love is meant not only to your spouse or girlfriend as the elderly or friend still this moment is so close to the feeling of affection for girlfriend or spouse. However, there are still many people who do not really disturbed daily activities by engaging himself welcome and celebrate this day of love. Because they think it is not so important in their lives. Affection can diluapkan anytime not just wait for February 14.
Valentines Day is indeed synonymous with celebrations in order to share love with your partner. However, many women who chose singles on Valentine's Day with some reason. Some of the reasons women choose for themselves on the day of love it.
Effect of Single Ladies.Single Ladies is one of Beyonce's songs are often used as a mecca for women to choose to be single. Moreover, if they understand the deep meaning of the song, it would be very nice.
Utilizing Time for Dress.Before dating, women usually beautify themselves with the dress. Dressing up is what sometimes cause problems in relationships. Why is that? Because women can spend hours simply to dress up. Ironically, men do not like to wait for long.
It is utilized that single women to preen as much as possible in a more convenient time. Dress up without waiting would be fun. So, they can look as good as possible to attend the celebration of valentine with her friends.
Do not want to be bothered with Permission.If you suddenly get a duty station outside the city or abroad during the celebration of this day of love, single women do not have to ask permission to the couple. It is certainly not easy to do if you have a girlfriend. It certainly should take care of licensing and provide a series of sense to pair that will be left. In fact, the task can be used as a venue for the streets.
Or for most teenagers who are still attending school. It would be difficult for them to get permission from the parents to be able to celebrate this day of love, especially has been known by many parents at this time that the celebration of this day of love has led to many negative things like binge drinking, drugs or sex free. Of course any parent would shield their children in order not to fall on things that harm themselves and their future.
Celebrate Valentine's with a couple lazy.Celebrate this day of love as if compulsory as a couple, whereas women prefer to celebrate Valentine's Day with family and friends. They are free to have fun and spend money for shopping without being noted and commented on.
Being a single woman is very pleasant because it is free to do things royal and visited several shops selling interesting items.
Especially for those who do not have a partner during this coming Valentines Day. Of course there will be a deeper feeling lazy today to celebrate.
If you really want to celebrate, it will certainly be confused with whom to celebrate. With friends? Naturally friend who owned will be busy with the celebration of this day of love with their partner. And for those who do not have a spouse will bite the fingers.
Free Sex Fear HappenedHis name is also the day of love, each pair as outlined to get swept up in the celebration of Valentines Day. This is what makes women afraid to do Valentine's Day with a girlfriend, especially if it were alone. Such conditions will usually lead to sex which of course is very detrimental to women. Today is the celebration of the day of love has been equipped and facilitated so easily once for things to happen like this free sex. With an atmosphere that was conditioned between the two people it will be easier for them to do this, especially, at this time many of us, especially among teenagers that far away from the correct understanding of Islam. They only understand Islam limited to worship alone. Or even Islam known only through a two-hour lesson a week in school. Islam is also simply known as one of the subjects in school.
With this fear of God will be eroded. Especially in a society controls also lower. People already think sex is a common thing indeed been done. The culprit did not get legal sanctions in the community. Gossip or isolation from society and not too obvious.
Our society has grown to be more indifferent to the conditions. They have been busy with their own lives without even thinking about what happens in the lives of others.
A complete waste of money.To celebrate this day of love, would have done thorough preparation ranging from dress, clothing or gifts for the boyfriend too. Sure it will suck a lot of money from us. Many people who do not want to be preoccupied with things like this. Rather than be used for such things as the celebration of this day of love, of course the money can be used for other things like buying science books to add insight horizon.
In addition to money, this celebration would also be wasting energy and also our time, a lot of things to be prepared. As well as a lot of the time anyway to be used in the celebration of the reception and implementation of this affection.
That view of Valentine's Not Coming from Islam.A Muslim is always basing all actions undertaken on the rules contained in Islam. What would be allowed and what is not allowed would be trying not done or abandoned. Because that's what would not be allowed to invite the anger of God, as when doing what is prohibited.
Similar to what is in the celebration of this day of love. When learning about the history of the origin of the emergence of this day of love, of course many Muslims who truly fear God's anger, felt no need to celebrate this day of love.
Because true love this day did not come from the religion of Islam and does not exist in Islam. So it is very clear that many Muslims, especially Muslim women who leave.
That's the reason some women choose singles when February 14 comes. Indeed, culture is the celebration day of love is not including the Indonesian culture. In fact, this tradition was opposed by religion, especially Islam. In addition to intersect with culture, history, and the originator of Valentine's Day, the celebration of the day of love is indeed quite ridiculous. Why is that?
How could love or Valentine's day is only done once a year. Indeed, Valentine's day is every day. In fact, all religions teach their followers to always love others, not only on a specific date. May be useful. So, thank you for reading this article.
Written and posted by Bambang Sunarno. firstname.lastname@example.org
name: Bambang Sunarno.
DatePublished: August 14, 2014 at 18:57
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