Why men are often shy when she questioned the commitment of a more assertive ?
John Gray , marriage expert and author of ' Men are from Mars , Women are from Venus ' say that the men committed as a chain saw . They see commitment as bonds which bind steps and loaded with responsibility .
" For some men , undergo a commitment not only to make life relaxing . Hearing the word commitment , their heads filled with undermining the bill directly , tight control couples , wedding expenses and saving for the future , "Gray said , as quoted Shine .
Some of the reasons that make men procrastinate or even withdraw from the commitment ?
Fear miscast .
Not just about feelings , some men commit delay due to fear of the wrong choice . With high ego , men tend to think a thousand times when love women who have more education and a good career . They tend to worry about living in shackles or power of women .In addition, men also tend to be concerned with their own loyalty . They fear can not maintain the confidence of a given pair . For them , maintaining the trust is also a great responsibility .
Not ready .
The context is not yet ready to feel morally and financially . The majority of men feel responsible for the couple's future after deciding to commit. Therefore , they often feel capable of delaying committed to creating a stable life with his partner .Pursuing a career .
This relates to both financially unprepared . Every man has his own readiness dose . They generally have a dose of success should be better than his partner . Most men are only able to commit after successfully achieving his dream in the workplace . For men , no matter their age continues to grow .Traumatic separation .
For some men , being single is better than a bad marriage experience . It mainly affects men who have experienced tragic separation or divorce in the family grows. They are generally more selective and has a lot of consideration before deciding to commit .Although in general many underlying reasons , make the commitment can not be enforced . Each has its own values and standards for the sake of a happy life in the future. Thank you for reading this article .
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