Is life remains the same when you change the status of a girlfriend to wife ? Most married couples would answer : " No! " When we become a wife , we carry many new roles , responsibilities and emotional burden . This will inevitably lead to some changes in our personality .
There are some changes that most women face after becoming a wife . But still, we will not only talk about the problems that arise , but also how to handle it so that your wedding remains flowery throughout life .
Expect too grandiose.
Your married life will not be forever happy . Imagine you and your husband will be staying directly in the dream house with a spacious garden , where she and the children would play and frolic every day , it is a wonderful dream , but do not then used as a benchmark . As a married couple , both of you will face problems , experienced strife , and was forced to make compromises .Always remember , getting married does not mean moving to the " world " of others. The world remains the same . However, you now have to try to achieve both and both happiness that can only be achieved with the feeling of love , respect and some compromise from both sides .
Trying to be the best in every respect .
Sometimes women try too hard to please everyone after they were married. They are trying to prove themselves to be the perfect housewife who knows how to cook, clean the house and make everyone happy , and still be a successful career woman . It is a good idea , but you do not ' Superwoman ' !Too much pressure will make your stress . Relationship with the victim's husband will be the most aggrieved over this scenario because he has to deal with the stress you . So , make sure you only do the things that you can do it yourself . Moreover, there is no harm in asking for help .
Not express true feelings .
Married and living with your husband can make emotional stress . Harbored feelings can lead to stress which is expressed in the form of nagging , mood swings , bad temper , and others . Rather than pout and pose in front of the husband's negative aura , try to talk to him about what is intrusive . This will not only prevent a lot of heartache , but also closer you as a married couple .Never let him alone.
Just because you are married to him , does not mean that the husband does not need a private room . Couples are much more involved in the life of each than when they were dating , but of course everyone wants to have time for herself . Give him time to hang out with friends or doing hobbies calmly . This will give you time to relax and live a ' personal time ' as well .Trying to be the " mother "
We know , sometimes men can be very cool . They do not know how to keep the house clean , hang towels in the bathroom , put the dishes in the sink , put dirty clothes in place , and various other bad habits . If you want to change the bad habits husband , then do it in stages . Tirade against all the bad things they do will only make him " hot " to be around you .Assumed status as a wife is one of the biggest changes you will experience in life. Make it a magical moment and as romantic as possible .
Thank you for reading this article. Written and posted by Bambang Sunarno .
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