UNDERSTANDING THE MEANING OF WORDS " AFFAIR "
The word cheating is actually not a foreign word to most people . In various media and in real life , the news about the affair many reviews. Infidelity is often interpreted by most people as a sexual relationship between a man and a woman who is not lawful husband and wife . However , when dealing with strangers who ask " what is it cheating " What is cheating ? , People get confused . For the sake of trivial people answered , " Cheating " is Love affair , an affair , or affarir romantic liaison . Answer this kind are common interpretation is " wrong " about the meaning of the word affair which tended to be associated with sexual or romantic relationship between the individuals who are not husband and wife valid.
At first glance people would agree with that answer . However , when we opened the Indonesian - English Dictionary , meaning that we will find no connection whatsoever with sexual matters , romantic , romance , romance .
In the Indonesian - English dictionary , the word Indonesia " cheating " has the same meaning as the English word "dishonest , corrupt " which means cheating , corrupt .
Stuart Robson , an Australian expert Java language and are compiled Javanese English Dictionary , mention the word cheating means to do something on the sly ( doing something secretly or surreptitiously , sneaky , secret or not forthright ) . Of course , Stuart Robson was not making it up, because in the dictionary ( dictionary ) Java - Indonesia prepared by S. Prawiroatmodjo , there is an explanation to this phenomenon . " Salingkuh " ( Jw ) means skimming , money and so forth . Once again , there was no association with sexual problems , romance , romantic or romance that deviate from the conjugal bond framework legitimate .
In Big Indonesian Dictionary , the word cheating is a stand-alone word , not a word formed from " lingkuh " which are prefixed with " se " . The word cheating has two meanings , first , do not come clean , dishonest , like hiding something for its own sake , cheating , unfaithful . Second , corrupt ( embezzled money ) for personal gain . So , in essence , " cheating " is the nature of the individual, alone , which does not involve other people . Namin , now Indonesian users say that cheating appoint " two human involvement in amorous adventures outside the valid path " .
The word " Cheating " is etymologically .
In ancient Javanese word indicates singkuh barrier , something is blocking the view , such as a wall , curtain or partition . So that means unobstructed view kasingkuh word , hidden behind a curtain or partition . While slingkuh word , which is derived from the interpolated singkuh " l " , means like hiding behind a wall , curtain or partition . In other words , like to do things by stealth , confidential or secret.Apparently, warnings do not cheat ! applies to all ages , not just for the husband - wife or teenagers , because a child could say cheating , if he likes to eat alone or not so secretly asked by others . Another example , a housewife who secretly use the money to buy goods without the knowledge of the jewelry itself can be called cheating husband . Husband who often go to have fun with their friends without the knowledge of his wife could be called cheating , although not engage in sexual relations , romance or romance with another woman . Conversely , a husband who openly maintain concubines ( invalid wife ) with his wife's knowledge and consent of the legitimate , can no longer be called cheating , because it is already common knowledge . It is still, from the point of religious law concubinage including adultery .
Thus , the affair is not only addressed to the husband and wife are legitimate . Infidelity can be directed to anyone who is doing something secretly or surreptitiously without the knowledge and consent of everyone else .
Therefore you have to really know and understand in depth the terms that arise with regard to the phrase " cheating " .
So , thank you for reading this article. Written and posted by Bambang Sunarno.
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