Tom and Nina had almost married. They claim to love each other to death as lively throughout other loyalty and promise.
To keep all the worst, they came to the notary. A separate property agreement made on stamped paper, witnessed by a notary who is based in the building in Jakarta's flashy. So, if an when it turns out to be separated, they can only carry property registered in the name of their own in private.
Everything went smoothly, seamlessly wedding party was held. And, perhaps most of us would consider it perfectly natural in an age in which everything is calculated with this material.
However, for AM Rukky Santoso, author of Right Brain: Right Brain Developing Capabilities for Life More Qualified, romance Tom and Nina was not fair. Love was only based on the calculation of profit and loss, not a true love. It happened because they're used to solve the problem only with the left brain functioning. "Everything is just based on logic," he said.
Another example, the word Rukky, is the human tendency is only dependent on medical treatment, the use of food supplements and medicines to keep them healthy. Although, at a seminar on medical science research in the United States, once revealed that in the science of modern medical treatment is only about 25 percent of which can be justified scientifically. The rest is an act of trial and error alias try. Conversely, efforts to fortify themselves with creating health of themselves rarely developed.
In fact, the word Rukky, in the human head there are three parts of the brain, the right brain, left brain and cerebellum or unconscious brain. Each section has a role and the character different.
The left brain is the part of the brain responsible for cognitive and rational thinking. This section has the typical characteristics that are logical, mathematical, analytical, realistic, vertical, quantitative, intellectual, objective, and control the motor system of the body part right.
The left brain has a character among others control motor movement right body - sensible, systematic, mechanical - mathematical calculations - analysis, language, images, words - character straight line, parallel - detail, master, goals / targets - ingenuity , worldliness - and dominant reality, straight - active, oriented in number - identity, reading, writing - the ultimate goal, target - phased and based on demand - a tendency to self - the tendency is more inward.
Conversely, the right brain is a part of the brain that are affective and relational thinking, has a qualitative character, impulsive, spiritual, holistic, emotional, artistic, creative, subjective, symbolic, imaginative, simultaneous, intuitive, and controls the motor movement of the body to the left.
The right brain has the character, among others: control motor movement left body - the character of human relationships - acoustic, sound, music - artistic, art, creativity - symbols, sensuality, space - intuition, imagination, the equation - continuous, fixed, clear - emotions, feelings picture - open, put the feeling - oriented to quality - doubling and processes - the spiritual and sightings - concerned with others - caring for nature and situations.
While a small part of the brain which is located on the bottom, in charge of the entire recording machine similar events take place in our lives. Cerebellum often surprise us with information regarding the sudden something not previously realized.
However, the entire education system in Indonesia as well as various aspects of life was only able to develop the left hemisphere. The right brain even just seen as something that can only underlie a person to be a great artist. People are not going to be an artist, do not need to develop the right brain. As a result, we become accustomed to think by using only the left brain.
To that end, Rukky opens Right Brain Institute of Life, a training development right brain abilities, in Jakarta and Bandung. Similar institutions is Center of the Right Brain Learning (Right Brain Training Center) that have opened in Bogor.
Currently, said Rukky, already thousands of people who follow this program. They consisted of children up to the doctors at leading universities such as the University of Trisakti and Atma Jaya, Jakarta. The participants were divided into two models. Models regular training conducted in 10 meetings, while intensive models only two days, ie Saturday and Sunday. The cost of training both models are the same, namely Rp.750.000,- per person.
This training method, said Rukky, scientific nature and relatively easy to follow. He was oriented to develop glandular activity, neural networks, instinctual energy and balance in the body. The training is intended to provide a stimulus to the part of hormones in the body to function normally. Thus the hormone would provide a stimulus to the function of the right hemisphere. This, according Rukky, in the long term could provide prosperity in life.
According to Shinto B. Adelar, M.Sc, professor of developmental psychology at the University of Indonesia, the exercise of the right brain development as applied Rukky very positive. If the left brain are developed, people become less imaginative and less creative.
Shinto also agree that the right brain is associated with an element of creativity that is not only feasible to be developed by artists. Scientists also need to develop it. "If not, he did not go forward. So, to develop something to look for new ideas," said Shinto.
However, Shinto noted that the left brain and the right brain are interconnected. "Do not misunderstand that the left and right hemispheres of the brain to work on their own. So, even though at that particular function, but each part of it would be more helpful if the activation of both sides," he said. Therefore, should be developed simultaneously. Thus, activities by stimulating the left brain and right brain.
Without going through the right brain specialized training institutions, the word Shinto, the development could be done through a simple little exercise. For example, the development of language is not just to mention about the facts. However, the language is also used to describe something that is fiction or imagination.
Alternatively, the word Shinto, count in certain ways as developed in the course of the abacus, mental arithmetic, and the like. "For example, we give the question, 2 + 4 = what? So, children are expected to count, how many plus what equals six," he said.
One manager abacus courses in Jakarta, Muhammad Dilar Darmawan said, abacus is to develop the right hemisphere. However, it is also intended to balance the left and right brain. "This course tries to maximize the functionality of both parts of the brain," said Dilar.
Approximately 30 children with an average age of six years following the end of the course more confident. They are also easy to work on the problems associated with the number. "The speed of their thinking further than ever before," said Dilar.
What developed in the course of the right brain like yours Rukky, does not seem like a specific course or the abacus mental arithmetic. But clearly, with this right brain development, quality of life will be more physically and psychologically.
As Rukky said, we are then able to look medang usual tradition of Javanese. Medang derived from the word wedang or drink is a habit enjoy a warm drink in the evening while sitting relaxed in an open space. While medang that they actually do some sort of meditation and contemplation that will activate the right brain.
Two Stage Right Brain Development.
In developing right brain, Right Brain Institute of Life which opened AM Rukky Santoso apply several stages as follows:* A part of the first stage is referred to as self-actualization and growth Explorations (Sage). At this stage, participants will be guided to begin cleaning up and restructure the whole body. Because the body has been conditioned harmful habits. This section is also intended to defeat laziness and improve overall physiological structure.
* The first stage part B, ie, self awareness and Reviving emotion (Sare). In this section the participants began to be invited to develop inner harmony, balance yourself and important gland activity in all parts of the body. Thus, participants will begin to run generators succesfull mechanism in the body and regain intact condition.
* The second stage is the brain bosster. In this section, participants will be invited to improve the nervous system and instinct distribute energy part of body. Thus, the brain and neurotransmitters get back its ability to operate in full and balanced.
COMMUNICATION STYLES.
One of the keys to success is to recognize the style of communication themselves. In general style of communication that is considered a success is firmly communication styles. Communication style is reflected in the pattern of everyday life attitude. For example if you get a failure, it is only as a motivational experience and to make changes, not even dissolve in grief and guilt. How to recognize a person's communication style can be done with a close associate with that person. But how to recognize communication styles ourselves.Some styles that we do not realize can occur and disrupt the way we communicate, including :
* Views are very aggressive* Do not want to compromise
* Intolerant
* Do not want to change (both attitudes and opinions)
* Can not wait
* Arrogant (haughty)
* Sarcastic (sharp-tongued)
* Manipulative (like playing)
* Dismisif (like refusing)
* Superior (snobby)
But do not also belong to the group of people who want to develop a firm stance by becoming a 'victim'. Firmness in question in this case is other people will treat you like the 'requested'. If someone understands you requested.
The dominance of one's communication style depending on the circumstances of communication that comes from the pattern of attitudes, namely
Passive.
Passive attitude usually related to 'lose', people who are always backed up, give up, and obedient. way communication is full of apologies, such as full agreement aversion and negative statements about themselves. Passive attitude implies that 'you are OK, but I'm not OK'
Passive / aggressive.
The attitude of passive / aggressive is usually associated with "saboteurs". It is simply not done openly. But the aggressive motivation is very clear. salient characteristics of this mode of communication is the sarcastic comments / sharp, the comments by two meanings to the signals of non verbs, like staring into the sky being scorn. The message contained therein is my not OK, you are also not OKAggressive.
Aggressive attitude is the attitude that ignores others. Although this is considered a 'person who diligently / viable or one of the winners in this life, but they are usually feared because of his style which encourages a false attitude of other people who would rather not dare to face this aggressive anger. The implied message is 'I'm OK, but you're not OK'.
Decisive.
Communications firm does not reduce or degrade human dignity of others, do not violate the rights of any other person, and does not shy away from a variety of important issues. Instead, this attitude would encourage Adaiah satisfactory communication where everyone's needs are met in the best way. Which typically can demonstrate a firm stance is the use of the statement 'I'. This indicates that the person who communicates it would take responsibility for the message it conveys. This form of communication is based on respect for themselves and for others. The implied message is 'I'm OK, and you also OK', so nobody loses.CONTROL ON.
The key to controlling our lives is to know ourselves. Steps in control of life is:
* Language to win* Positive Affirmation
* Creative Visualization
* Build self-esteem.
LANGUAGE TO WIN.
Language is the language of the winning firm stand. We recommend that need be addressed is how to express something (pronunciation), not spoken.Quality to win from a communicator firm that is:
direct and clear-language- The ability to demonstrate an understanding and to feel the feelings of others as active listening skills
- The ability to establish relationships and maintain
- Eye contact, voice, and good posture.
- Confidence in what you said - without comment that avoid the attention of the
person or apology. Thank you for reading this article.
Written and posted by Bambang Sunarno. sunarnobambang86@gmail.com
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